tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post2338086073417464547..comments2017-03-18T09:07:20.593-07:00Comments on Vante's Blog: I've failedAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03396837602666636886noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post-14059800797471142852010-05-01T23:14:20.380-07:002010-05-01T23:14:20.380-07:00Here was the response from Dr. Frank, our behavior...Here was the response from Dr. Frank, our behavior specialist...<br /><br />There may be some additional methods available, including prescription medications from her vet to help ease a mutual acceptance. It's also possible that these are a group of cat personalities that will never be fully compatible. Although I don't have the time available to take this on myself, an excellent (and no-cost) behavior counseling service for just this thing is run by Denver Dumb Friends League. Here's the link to the service: http://support.ddfl.org/site/Survey?SURVEY_ID=1200&ACTION_REQUIRED=URI_ACTION_USER_REQUESTS<br /><br /> <br /><br />Dr. F<br /><br /><br />And, I agree with the comment about Vante and what I would call her "sharing issues". She does not like to share attention with anyone.<br /><br />I hope this helps. Linda BoNoon Patrolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02272271099879510630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post-11735718787227404882010-04-20T06:50:15.824-07:002010-04-20T06:50:15.824-07:00Yikes! Hopefully the shelves/verticle space will g...Yikes! Hopefully the shelves/verticle space will give them the room to feel each other out. But buy more Resolve just in case:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post-40353975281712496282010-04-10T20:13:41.453-07:002010-04-10T20:13:41.453-07:00Oh, and you haven't failed. Clearly Vante, Ame...Oh, and you haven't failed. Clearly Vante, Amelia and Callie Mae are having a say in this. : \Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post-20097295997624395492010-04-10T20:10:49.068-07:002010-04-10T20:10:49.068-07:00I understand Ashley. In all the years I've vis...I understand Ashley. In all the years I've visited Vante at BF, she was always sensitive about being around others. <br /><br />It might be OK to give it a break anyway. It's too draining on you and them to try to for "progress". If you can deal with separated kitties, that's great.<br /><br />Best of luck. Give them all a hug and yourself a break.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post-86770381164589420822010-04-09T18:24:57.836-07:002010-04-09T18:24:57.836-07:00I'll give Vante that hug. And I'd love to...I'll give Vante that hug. And I'd love to hear any advice you're willing to give. I am seriously at the end of my rope on the integration issue. Thanks! -AshleyAshleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03396837602666636886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5937020503166251842.post-53794250300129863802010-04-08T21:43:11.776-07:002010-04-08T21:43:11.776-07:00Awww. Don't give up. I will talk to Mike and o...Awww. Don't give up. I will talk to Mike and others and see if we can come up with anything else to try. Hang in there. And give Vante a big hug from the Colonel's Crew.Noon Patrolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02272271099879510630noreply@blogger.com